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January 2013

December 31, 2012 by Shirley.Christopher

Q.  Our company lost a major contract with a customer we’ve done business with for decades.  Some employees are coping well, but others seem to be horribly depressed.  I’m scared by the reaction and some folks taking this too hard.  Can the EAP help?

A.  Talk to the EAP.  During your discussion, the EAP will help you formulate an approach to offer more support and suggest steps you can take that are consistent with your job and that will help your employees.  You’re witnessing grief, which can be associated with many things, including financial loss, career disappointments, and broken dreams.  Be sure to acknowledge to your employees that you understand how devastating this loss of business is.  Ask them individually to speak with you privately if they feel the need.  Ask each employee how you can best support him or her at this time.  After an event like this, some of your employees may lose confidence in themselves.  You need to step in ahead of that reaction to offer realistic assurance.  When you meet with disappointed employees, be sure to invite them to contact the EAP.

Q.  My employee comes back from lunch every day with alcohol on the breath.  Is this person an alcoholic?  Our policy states employees cannot be under the influence at work.  This person does not appear under the influence in any way.

A.  Diagnosis is something you should avoid.  Conceivably, you could have non-alcoholics in your organization who drink at lunch every day and chronic alcoholics who never do.  Your policy likely has a list of signs and symptoms to determine reasonable suspicion for testing or a fitness-for-duty examination.  Is “alcohol on the breath” listed?  May it be used as the sole criterion to act?  Do you have discretion as to whether to ignore it unless other performance or behavioral indicators exist?  Organizations with safety-sensitive positions may have policies that view alcohol on the breath as the only criterion necessary to authorize a test for reasonable suspicion, while some employers draw distinctions between job classifications for this purpose.  Talk to your supervisor and talk to the EAP.  Be clear, and consider whether you are overlooking other less obvious but important behavioral indicators to justify taking action in response to an employee possibly being under the influence.

Q.  What are soft skills and how do I develop the soft skills I am lacking or that need improvement?  Do EAP’s do soft skills training?  I once was criticized for my lack of follow-through and poor communication, but I don’t see these as EAP issues.

A.  Soft skills are personal attributes that relate to your ability to interact within a larger environment.  Soft skills may include your ability to remain organized, inspire and praise employees, communicate effectively, establish productive work habits, be a team player, resolve conflicts, or be dependable and conscientious.  There is no absolute list of soft skills, yet some, such as effective communication, are commonly referenced.  Consider past performance reviews, interactions with others, and honest criticisms from those you trust.  Consider a workbook on the subject.  The most recent offering on this topic (2012) is Soft Skill Training:  A Workbook to Develop Skills for Employment by Frederick H. Wentz.  If you recognize limitations in soft skills areas that you think may be holding you back, talk to the EAP.  Acquiring those skills or deepening them may be enhanced by professional counseling to help you past psychological roadblocks or challenges that impede your progress.

Q.  I want to be fair when giving assignments to employees, but I discriminate based on whether I trust them.  Maybe it’s believability, authenticity, or realness – I can’t put my finger on it – but this difference among employees affects my judgment.  What’s my problem?

A.  Trusting your employees is a risk, but good leaders must learn to do it.  Each of your employees has unique skills and abilities, but you will not discover what they are until you test them with assignments that can reveal them.  Some employees are more adept at unveiling who they are to others.  Part of their appeal is an ability to be vulnerable and show authenticity.  Others are just as competent, except they do not exhibit these qualities in their personalities.  So the issue for you is clarity.  Because you are not clear about whom these employees are, your impulse is to trust them less.  This gives you a clue to your next step, which is to engage more with them so they become less of a mystery to you.  More trust will follow.

Q.  Employees who are “part of the club” seem much happier.  Some employees avoid socializing with their peers.  They rely solely on their performance to advance in the organization.  I know it’s not fair, but social skills and competence are important.  How can I help?

A.  The reality is that social competence in the environment is important.  When examined closely, employers more often choose to hire employees who have these abilities because they can help create an upbeat work culture and positively influence the bottom line.  Although socializing, telling jokes, and bringing in the doughnuts are not essential duties, it is still appropriate to help your employee connect with peers.  Some of this depends on your employee’s willingness to be more engaging.  During reviews, if appropriate to your organization’s format, inquire as to how this person feels about his or her connection to the larger environment and with peers.  Statements indicating a desire to be more a part of the social network will give you a sense of how far you can go in making recommendations.  Remember, the EAP is always ready to help.

December 2012

November 27, 2012 by Shirley.Christopher

Q.  Our organization does not have harsh performance management systems, but I see employees compete pretty aggressively.  What’s the proper role of supervisors in managing competition so productivity and employee goals are achieved but negative effects of competition are avoided?

A.  Workplace competition has always been a controversial subject among those concerned with productivity.  The subject is very broad and extensive literature exists.  Competition is a tool for managing productivity, but like any tool it can be abused.  When two employees compete against each other with regard to sales or productivity goals, this can be a good thing.  However, if employees compete with no regard for working cooperatively with each other, conflicts can undermine the gains sought by the organization.  Always seek to improve collaboration and teamwork among employees.  This can help reduce aggression, conflicts, bullying, and morale problems.  Always make it your personal policy and practice to promote shared goals and mutual respect.  By modeling this supervision style, you avoid competing employees seeing you as a “cage fight” ringmaster, a distorted perception easily acquired by some employees and one that can lead to big problems. 

Q.  One of our employees was arrested for dealing cocaine in our town, but I never saw signs or symptoms of drug use.  In fact, job performance was strong.  What did I miss?  This employee never looked disheveled.  He was very bright and confident.

A.  Although there are signs and symptoms of cocaine use, it can be difficult to spot.  Assuming your employee both sold and used cocaine during work hours, there may have been performance or attendance issues that conflicted with outside activities.  A cocaine user or dealer could appear as a strong and confident person.  Unless there was wildly unusual behavior suggesting toxicity, this would not justify a reasonable suspicion test.  Don’t confuse drug dealing with low-income or a disheveled appearance.  Drug-dealing individuals are usually not hurting for cash.  Many, if not most, are privileged, middle class, and the suppliers and supporters of their friends’ drug habits.  They don’t deal on street corners.  Always the common denominator for recognizing the most subtle forms of drug abuse is how close you are to your employee during the workday and how frequently you directly observe his or her behavior.

Q.  One of the substances discussed in supervisor training was inhalants, like glue and other volatile materials.  I can see alcohol and drugs being problems, but find it hard to believe that inhalants could ever be an issue in the workplace.  Is this a serious problem?

A.  Inhalant abuse in the workplace is not common, but it can happen.  Supervisors should therefore know about it.  Nearly every workplace includes inhalants that can be abused.  There are many types of inhalants, such as white out, felt-tip markers, and aerosols.  Almost any type of volatile substance can be abused.  If a drug-addicted employee wants to get high and his or her drug of choice is not available, risk increases that the next most available mind-altering substance could be used.  In 2012, a NIDA report found that 15% of 8th graders had abused some sort of inhalant.  Inhalants are the only substance of abuse used more by young people than adults.  Age alone does not necessarily preclude participating  in the abuse of inhalants, however.  You can read the updated NIDA report on inhalant abuse at www.drugabuse.gov (search screen:  “inhalants”).

Q.  How can I get employees to come forward in a straightforward manner to discuss their concerns about the work unit?  Some pout and complain to peers but in meetings never speak up.  I think the behavior leads to morale issues and encourages similar behavior in others.

A.  Even if there are plenty of opportunities to raise concerns with you about the work unit, some employees will remain silent, and seek to air their frustration with coworkers in gripe sessions.  Doing so is a dependable way to gain sympathy, bond with peers, or join with others who do the same thing.  Some of this is not harmful, and most workplaces experience some of it.  A problem arises when this becomes a primary way of venting frustrations.  These employees are keeping valuable information from you that could improved the efficiency and productivity of the organization or work unit.  Encourage employees and meet with them one-on-one during the year.  If permissible, consider adding “ability to share information and concerns” as part of their review, and establish standards for “outstanding” and “unsatisfactory” performance on this matter.  Don’t forget to consider a referral to the EAP if this problem isn’t resolved.  With assistance, you will guide employees toward the new behaviors you need them to acquire.

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