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November 2012

October 31, 2012 by Shirley.Christopher

Q.  How many times should I recommend the EAP to my employee for an ongoing saga of fights and domestic troubles at home that we hear about?  The employee has never followed my recommendation to see the EAP.  Should I refer the employee somewhere else?

A.  You should continue to recommend the EAP to your employee whenever information about a personal problem or serious concern is shared.  The EAP will conduct a proper assessment and refer your employee to any specialized source of help.  It may be important for you to evaluate if the issue is distracting the employee, work peers and you away from work.  If the domestic issues interfere with the work environment, then it may need to be addressed as a performance issue.  It may help to talk with Human Resources and/or the EAP to evaluate if the performance issues warrant a direct referral to the EAP. 

Q.  My department head gave me an uneasy look the other day because my employees were in the break room socializing and not working at their desks.  Personally, I think there is value in socializing for morale, but how rigid should I be about curbing it?

A.  Your question is an age-old one for supervisors.  You’re right about socializing.  It does benefit morale, and employees who enjoy each other are more likely to be energetic and stick around.  That’s good for productivity.  Some management experts argue that socializing employees can be more productive and that interaction facilitates creativity, self-assessment, synergism, new ideas, and the employees’ ability to learn about and recognize each other’s strengths.  However, it’s true that socializing employees may avoid work or be easily distracted, so there is such a thing as too much socializing.  But how much distraction, socializing, and hanging out in the break room is too much?  You’re the only one who can answer that question.  Now that you have a better awareness of the benefits of socializing on the job, you can view and manage it as a resource rather than as an annoyance.

Q.  I suggested my employee go to the EAP and then a few months later had to make a formal referral.  The employee never went.  That was two years ago.  Today, things are great.  This person is my best worker.  I stayed focused on performance.  The EAP didn’t play a role, but I was glad it was there.

A.  Your experience is a good one to illustrate the benefits of the EAP.  The EAP worked perfectly, and here’s why:  The employee assistance program is not simply a place where counselors wait for employees to show up either by themselves or via supervisor referral.  More accurately, the EAP is a programmatic approach to the management of troubled employees and the risks that arise that are associated with human behavior and interaction in the work organization.  Examples include conflict, morale issues, team building, supervisory skills development, and the need for consultative guidance offered to managers to deal with employee issues.  The EAP was a tool for you to use in resolving the problems with your employee.  You succeeded in managing your employee properly by staying focused on performance and insisting on change.  Your employee felt that resolve and was motivated to make corrections.  You used the EAP as a tool, although the employee did not attend.  The corrective action you applied incorporating the EAP approach produced a better employee.

 Q.  Supervisors are not group therapists, so how can we play a role in resolving workplace negativity?  I admit I see plenty of it, but if the work gets done, I am inclined to ignore it.  Perhaps I am not aware of the true impact of negativity and strategies to help stop it.

 A.  If you are unaware of the costs associated with workplace negativity or what strategies can fight it, you’ll more easily ignore it, tolerate it, or even worse, join in it.  Workplace negativity isn’t just about employees griping or picking on each other or what’s overheard in the restroom.  Workplace negativity damages the work culture, and a deliberate approach is often needed to reverse it.  Your primary tool for fighting negativity is communication.  Intervening may not be easy, but the trick is to not give up.  You may be unable to stop layoffs, but you may be able to facilitate support systems, improved communication, and quicker responses to unfounded rumors.  Talk to the EAP, and be open-minded if asked about your supervision style; perhaps it contributes unwittingly to workplace negativity.  Examining all angles is important.  Strategies will vary depending on the issues, but once you decide upon an approach, be sure to establish systems that help you prevent the return to a negative work culture.

 Q.  Employees teased another worker about drinking large soda drinks.  The employee was clearly not happy about it.  I thought about speaking up, but figured it was okay for them to continue because the issue of large soda drinks is so prevalent in the news.

 A.  Whether news exists about the harmful effects of smoking, large fountain drinks, red meat, or tanning beds, it is important as a supervisor to remain focused on maintaining respectful behavior in the workplace.  The intensity of media attention to topical issues can make it seem “okay” to criticize others or treat them with less respect.  Harassment in the workplace has a broad definition, and it takes the passive approval of only one authority figure to encourage some employees who may have kept silent to join in on treating others with disrespect.  Most supervisors underestimate their level of influence with their employees.  Realize that stepping in to correct this behavior may be welcomed.  This is because many employees who behave disrespectfully also have second thoughts about it, even as an authority figure can be powerful – not only for stopping disrespectful behavior but for reinforcing the importance of maintaining a positive and affirming workplace.

October 2012

October 1, 2012 by Shirley.Christopher

Q. I know “presenteeism” refers to employees coming to work sick and being less productive, but it can be difficult to spot related job problems.  How do supervisors intervene?  Presenteeism is not a new concept, but I have only seen it mentioned in the past ten years or so.

A. Presenteeism is a relatively new term, but it is essentially a modernized version of what in the past has been referred to as “on the job absenteeism.”  Although presenteeism is an interesting topic for discussion, attempting to identify who is affected by it is more difficult.  It is better to avoid the technical aspects of this pattern of behavior and instead focus on what you can document in your pursuit of helping your employees maximize their productivity and job satisfaction.  Presenteeism typically refers to employees being at work while sick, but it also has been used to describe almost any nonproductive activity of employees on the job, no matter what the underlying reason might be.  If you stay aware of behaviors that demonstrate an employee is either not performing competently or is without motivation for the tasks they are supposed to perform, presenteeism may exist.  Your EAP can consult with you about presenteeism and intervention.

Q. What can supervisors do to improve their ability to spot signs and symptoms of an employee who is impaired on the job because of alcohol or drug use?  A checklist is important, but some of the symptoms, I think, can be very subtle and easily missed.

A. Beyond a checklist, the one thing supervisors could do to improve their ability to identify the signs and symptoms of drug or alcohol use on the job is to get to know their employees better.  Knowing your employees and having frequent face time with them is your best intervention strategy.  This is because over time you will develop an awareness of or “sixth sense” for your employees’ appearance, attitude, and demeanor, and how these things change from day to day.  An employee with a substance abuse problem will exhibit behaviors that are inconsistent with what the supervisor has grown accustomed to experiencing.  So, initiate friendly conversations and make eye contact with employees on a regular basis.  You will then be more likely to notice uncharacteristically slurred speech, a glazed facial expression, an unsteady gait, glassy or bloodshot eyes, and dilated pupils.  These things can be easy to miss or dismiss if you are not frequently close to your employees.

Q. I am a new manager in my organization and I want to do a good job.  I am not trying to be liked, but I know leadership is not like it is on a TV show where being tough and intimidating can still leave employees thinking you’re a hero.

A. You’re right that being a good leader or manager includes getting the work done, but your success will depend on your ability to develop relationships and trust among those you lead.  This can be a tough assignment for some managers.  A good supervisor is usually liked by those they supervise, but it is a payoff for first being effective with people.  To be effective, meet with individual employees privately and discover what talents, hopes, and goals they possess.  Use this information to develop and challenge them during the year.  Praise them for good work and behave the way you want your employees to behave:  Come to work on time, be reliable, follow through, fix problems quickly, and be honest about what’s going on in the company.  Talk to the EAP early on if you experience or sense trouble in relating to employees or feel disconnected from them.

Q. Our team training budget has been cut this year, so are there any strategies or techniques my employees can regularly practice that have an ongoing “team building” effect to keep us cohesive and less prone to conflict with each other?

A. Team members with regular habits of communicating in positive ways with each other have fewer conflicts and better group cooperation.  Here’s a technique that may help your group.  Its essential purpose is to help employees practice appreciation and gratitude with each other.  See if you can make it a tradition.  At the end of meetings, ask whether any team  member has positive feedback for any other team member.  Model what you are asking.  For example, say, “I would like to thank Mary for coming in last Thursday to work on the mailing project.  I felt relieved of pressure and really appreciative of her for doing that.”  Members take turns sharing feedback.  The exercise may be a bit awkward if these are new behaviors, but because they are inherently positive, group members should catch on.  This strategy builds resilience to stress and allows conflicts to be resolved more quickly.

Q. When I correct my employee’s performance, I frequently notice body language that appears resistant (e.g., folding of arms, looking up or away, remaining quiet, staring).  Can I document this behavior as refusing feedback?  It feels like it.

A. Start by asking your employee about the meaning of these behaviors.  You are having a negative reaction to them as they strike you as insubordinate, so you need to state that these nonverbal behaviors do not work in your communication.  You have a right to ask for something different.  Ask your employee to appear more cooperative.  Your employee may say he or she is not resistant to feedback or having their work corrected, but when behaviors do not support or reinforce this message, it is reasonable to assume differently and document it as such with appropriate detail.

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